"This is THE book that made me financially independent for a lifetime.  I had to self-publish this book because I had no relevant credentials.  I was turned down by about 14 publishers and at least two dozen agents.  I interviewed over 5000 people over a period of six years to gather information from people everywhere, in every walk of life, and with every relationship problem you can imagine.  It's ALL in the book.  

The book has changed the lives (for the better) of hundreds of thousands, perhaps more.  It talks about dating, about marriage, divorce, problems in marriage BEFORE divorce, getting back together (or  closing this chapter on your life and getting on with your life).  It tells WHAT to look for in a person, along with a humorous but FACTUAL choice list you'll enjoy, along with rules and guidelines.  There's a chapter on DATING A MARRIED PERSON, one for OLD FOLKS, and even a chapter on PETS.  It tells about VIDEO DATING, what to do when you are separated and want to get back and the difference between the wants of men and women. The book also gives you FOUR categories (DEMANDS, WOULD LIKE, WILL ACCEPT and LAST RESORT) on HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT PERSON.

" What makes YOU an expert, people ask? Simple: I was single and dating from age 25 to 52. I lived 27, wild, wonderful, fun-loving years (since my divorce) and I LIVED much of these things. I also have a bachelor of science degree and two masters degrees so I READ much of what 'experts' read and I also LIVED it! I never degrade  psychologists or psychiatrists and many help. But MY information is 'hands on' so to speak.

I talk about TRICKS to play to get a man (or a woman) both interested and committed to a relationship. I was speaking to a large group of over 2000 one day in Chicago, most of whom  were recently divorced and about 95% women. One lady (ugly lady) in the audience stood up and blurted. 'You're stupid. I don't want to play a GAME!' (My answer:) Lady, if you don't PLAY the game, you'll never be IN the game. (Ugly lady:) 'I hope you're married. I'd never marry you. If I was married to you I'd give you POISONED milk!' Me (after looking at the lady and hearing her shriek) Thank God, I said. And if I was married to YOU, I'd happily DRINK that poison milk.

"Yeah, you'll love this book because it's TRUE, I pull NO punches, and I give PRACTICAL methods that work! It is fun AND informative!"